I looked up the
definition of the word realistic - this is what I found -
1.
having or showing a sensible and practical idea of what can be achieved
or expected.
2.
representing familiar things in a way that is accurate or true to life.
I have disabilities - I don't use
that word much, but it's true... that's the box I check on the taxi coupons I
use - "disabled rider"... I feel like owning my disabilities is
healthy, not about giving in.
Here are some of my realities -
1) I don't drive, & I think it's
unlikely I will again.
2) I'm no longer a performing,
teaching flutist, tho I still play my flute.
3) I don't travel, & it's
unlikely I will again. I'm able to visit my parents, & other family by car.
4) I'm trying to do more with my
husband Ron.
5) I read - & LOVE - the comic
strip MUTTS, as well as headlines in our local paper, and the headings of some
newsletters. I've gone thru a couple Lands'End catalogs, and then gotten help
from Ron to make purchases.
6) I'm very limited re my computer
usage, tho I've learned how to use my iPad to listen to audiobooks.
7) I draw, play our piano keyboard,
& occasionally connect by phone with friends/family.
8) I'm able to do some ordinary but
necessary household tasks (i.e. cooking, laundry).
9) I'm interested in advocacy -
speaking out about vestibular and vision disorders - specifically migraine
associated vertigo (MAV), & convergence insufficiency (CI) (eye teaming). I'm thinking about what more I can do, how I
can better educate people.
10) I do neurological rehab - Vision Therapy & Feldenkrais - & plan to take a break in 2 months, when my daughters are on Winter Break.
10) I do neurological rehab - Vision Therapy & Feldenkrais - & plan to take a break in 2 months, when my daughters are on Winter Break.
I need to own my invisible disorders,
which means talking about how my symptoms feel, not hiding. Explaining to those who are interested, &
will listen. Putting a face on these disorders makes them real. *I* am here.
